Am i gay???

It sounds like you are a teenager going through puberty. Most people aren't as open and honest as you are. As far as cooking and baking, you should know that men are, generally, the best cooks. The reason: men witl throw a bad dish out...women want to salvage it (generally). So that's a no brainer. The fact that you don't or haven't masturbated only means that you probably have more of a religious conviction. Give it time. I don't know of anyone who hasn't masturbated. It's just part of life...and not something to get stressed about. If you have a girlfriend that doesn't mean you're straight or gay. Hopefully, it means that you have found someone with whom you enjoy spending time. If your feelings toward males persists and gets stronger, then I would suggest you talk with a trusted advisor or counselor who would be more able to help you.