What's going on with her? 10 pts best?

hey everybody! I will start off with some background info. Im 29 m single(never married) she is 27 divorced(no kids). We met 9 months ago and it was like we had known each other our whole lives. We flirted for several months before talking about dating. I was all for it, but she wasn't. She told me about how she really likes me and scared she will mess up our relationship like she does all of hers. Then added how she could not bare the thought of not being able to talk or be around me. I said ok we are in the friends zone and respected her decision. Well, this whole time our mutual friends have been telling us we should be dating and how good we are together. She responds with "I know he is a great guy I would love to date him." then changes the subject. we talked about it again and she fells she can only be happy with a guy that is divorces like she is. so, now she is seeing a divorsed guy but they fight like cats and dogs and break up everyother day. he hates her friends and she hates his friends and parents. they broke up last week and she went on a trip with a bunch of us. we talked, laughed, and did a lot of flirting. after the trip, we have talked everyday and went out to dinner the other night. the next day she was planning the move back to her ex. one of her really close friends told me she cant think of a reason why she will not date me. her friend said she talks about me all the time and always ask if im going to be at social gatherings, trips, etc... any advice is welcome. Thanks!