Is this guy trashy or what?

My ex-financee is a Brit. He is a liar. He played my 9 yr old daughter, telling he she could call him "Daddy". Telling her he loved her, just to get to me. I persume for a green card. I discovered his lies and now my daughter is hurt beyond words, wanting not to believe he is wrong that she still loves him. He is partying right now with 2 other women. I seen his hotel reservations. I am now the bad guy, taking in all my daughters hurt